Flavor #7: Character (Charakter; Leb; Tebunah)

(Complete list and links to the 31 Flavors of Wisdom)

Meaning, Essence and Significance: Character embodies the essence of who we are, especially when unobserved. In the New Testament, the Greek word Charakter signifies an exact imprint or precise reproduction, illustrating how your character reflects your inner values. Leb refers to the heart, the immaterial core of our thoughts, desires, and moral compass, reflected in the term “what is written on our heart.”  The Hebrew term Tebunah denotes discernment and insight, which are key processes to understand and empathize with the heart of another. Tebunah, when used in reference to the act of employing wisdom, demonstrates we are to deliver wisdom, to the object of wisdom (others) as we personify wisdom (by our character). Collectively, these terms highlight that character is the outward manifestation of our deep inner convictions, sculpted by the consistent practice of skilled behavior (#27) we demonstrate in our effort to reflect the character of our God (Hebrews 1:3).

Practical Appearance and Nutritional Value: Character is behavior that’s evident in actions such as honoring commitments, speaking truthfully, and demonstrating reliability, even when faced with challenges. It resonates in apologies when wrong and in forgiveness when wronged. Character is the quiet strength that develops trust and dependability, where your actions line up with your professed beliefs. Like a signature ingredient in a cherished recipe, your character leaves a lasting, and typically positive impression on those you encounter.​

Who deserves some of this seasoning?  “My children merit a consistent serving of this flavor. Beyond good behavior, they should witness integrity in my action(s). This involves aligning my words with deeds, making decisions rooted in conviction, and demonstrating growth through acknowledging and correcting mistakes. It manifests as humility (#22) in correction, gentleness in guidance, and reliability in fulfilling promises. Through this, they learn that character is not about flawlessness but about the continual pursuit of goodness and respectability, with my heart guiding the way.​”

Thanks again for looking at these 31 Flavors of Wisdom and hopefully, participating in the 31 Day Wisdom Challenge, and for reading this excerpt from Cultivating Love: Wisdom for Life. As time permits, please visit the other blogs written by Dr. Ken McGill: Daily Bread for Life and “3–2- 5–4–24” for additional information that could be helpful.

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Dr. Ken McGill is an ordained minister and has been involved in counseling for more than 25 years. Dr. McGill holds a Bachelor's degree in Religion from Pacific Christian College (now Hope International University), a Certificate of Completion in the Alcohol and Drug Studies/Counseling Program from the University of California at Los Angeles and a Masters degree in Clinical Psychology from Antioch University. Dr. McGill received his Doctorate in Clinical Psychology with an emphasis in Family Psychology from Azusa Pacific University in May, 2003. Dr. McGill's dissertation focused on the development of an integrated treatment program for the sexually addicted homeless population, and Ken was "personally mentored" by dissertation committee member Dr. Patrick Carnes, a pioneer in the field of sex addiction work. Dr. McGill authored a chapter in the text The Clinical Management of Sex Addiction, with his chapter addressing the homeless and sex addiction. Dr. McGill is also a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in the States of Texas and California and Mississippi, and is a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, through the International Institute for Trauma and Addictive Professionals (IITAP). Dr. McGill had a private practice in Glendora, CA (Aspen Counseling Center), Inglewood, CA (Faithful Central Bible Church), and Hattiesburg, MS (River of Life Church), specializing in the following areas with individuals, couples, families, groups and psychoeducational training: addictions and recovery, pre-marital, marital and family counseling, issues related to traumatization and abuse, as well as depression, grief, loss, anger management and men's and women's issues. Dr. McGill also provided psychotherapeutic treatment with Student-Athletes on the University of Southern Mississippi Football and Men's Basketball teams. Dr. McGill served as the Director of the Gentle Path Program, which is a seven-week residential program, for people who are challenged with sexual addiction, sexual anorexia, and relationship issues. Dr. McGill also supervised Doctoral students in the Southern Mississippi Psychology Internship Consortium with the University of Southern Mississippi. Dr. McGill was inducted into the Azusa Pacific University Academic Hall of Honor, School of Behavioral and Applied Sciences, in October, 2010. Dr. McGill currently works as a Private practice clinician with an office in Plano, Texas, providing treatment with people who are challenged in the areas mentioned above.

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