Flavor #23: Prudence (Ormah; Prudentia)

(Complete list and links to the 31 Flavors of Wisdom)

Meaning, essence, and significance?  Prudence, rooted in the Hebrew term ‘Ormah, is the positive outcome of integrating and applying Discretion (#16), Wisdom (#1), Intelligence (#13), and Reason (#12). When these virtues are combined and put into practice, they enable you to develop thoughtful strategies that result in skillful, insightful, and life-giving and life-affirming behaviors. The Latin Prudentia meaning “foresight,” involves the ability to discern the appropriate course of action in any given situation, considering circumstances, potential consequences, and the application of your moral principles that helps you to make the best of all decisions per the situation that’s before you. Without prudence, other virtues may become misguided; for instance, courage without prudence can lead to recklessness. 

Practical Appearance and Nutritional Value: Prudence manifests as thoughtful deliberation before making decisions, weighing possible outcomes, and choosing actions that align with your moral and ethical standards. Prudence “lights the way and measures the arena” for the exercise of other virtues, ensuring that actions are not only well-intentioned but also appropriately executed. The “nutritional value” of prudence lies in its role as the “charioteer of the virtues,” guiding and regulating other virtues to prevent them from becoming vices. For example, without prudence, bravery may devolve into foolhardiness. 

Who deserves some of this seasoning?  “When my close friend faces a significant life decision, such as a career change or relocation, I offer a sprinkling of prudence by engaging in open and thoughtful discussions with him. I helped him to carefully evaluate his options, consider potential consequences, and reflect on his long-term goals and values. By providing a balanced perspective and encouraging thorough deliberation, I assisted him in making a well-informed and wise decision that aligns with his best interests.”

So thanks again for looking at these 31 Flavors of Wisdom and hopefully, participating in the 31 Day Wisdom Challenge, and for reading this excerpt from Cultivating Love: Wisdom for Life. As time permits, please visit the other blogs written by Dr. Ken McGill: Daily Bread for Life and “3–2- 5–4–24” for additional information that could be helpful.

Dr. Ken McGill, LMFT — Attachment Repair for Couples • Faith-Integrated Trauma Therapy in California • Healthy Adult Mode Therapy for High-Functioning Professionals. Dr. McGill provides attachment-focused therapy integrating psychology and spiritual formation for couples and individuals seeking structured growth, with telehealth available statewide in California and Texas and in-person sessions in Plano, TX. Learn more or schedule a session at drkenmcgill@live.com, www.drkenmcgill.com, or 972. 505. 6144.